DELAY, delay, delay. More parents want to delay but don’t. Unless parents parent, children won’t put screens down. Kids look at their phones an average of 80 times a day. This is training their brains to do it and want that dopamine.

Talk and Set boundaries and rules for your home. Don’t cave, ever, stick to the rules and create them as a family. Set consequences together too.

Routines are as Healthy as Love for kids. Maintain routines as best you can.  First, set up,  homework, chores, playing outside, sports etc. Create clear expectations so kids do things automatically. No more nagging will be needed.

Sports, Arts, Music,  sign them up! Keep children engaged athletically and find them a hobby.  Activities are multifactorial in their development, this helps to build socialization skills, resilience, and confidence. They are invaluable.

Face time, not FaceTime, for family. Family dinners, family events with grandparents are a good start.  However, playing cards, reading to them, hugging them and affection is more important now than ever in these times of isolation. Create traditions and go on holiday. 

Socialization. If children don’t bond and form secure attachments to their parents, they can’t develop the remaining psychological steps concretely. If children don’t pass through this stage, they will have gaps in their overall development.  

Connection: Keep kids on the main floor with you. For awareness and for protection.

Controls App: Add @FYIplayitsafe, lets parents see what their kids are doing and notifies you when something is wrong. Bullying, if they are sad, if someone asks them their name? Also,  Add Blue Guardian App

The Canadian Paediatric Screen Task Force states,  “Children should use screens for 1 hour a day.” Some children aren’t speaking properly by JK while older children aren’t talking to develop the linguistic part of their brains, they are texting. This is not a substitute, says Dr. John Hutton of Cincinnati Children’s Hospital.

Keep talking to your athletes and organize a time to be together with family.  Making family time sacred  raises HOCKEY IQ.

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